First and foremost, even more important than the actual wedding event itself is your marriage and pledge to each other. It is normal to stress about planning your once-in-a-lifetime wedding—after all you've been dreaming about this day for years—it's also important to keep everything in perspective and remember what truly is most important. The wedding event is one special moment in your life, a marriage lasts the rest of your lifetime—filled with many more special moments.

During your engagement, find time to discuss important marriage topics such as children, finances, living situations, life outlooks, careers, more...

Gift ideas for your wedding attendants

Groomsmen

• Personalized putter/golf towel/golf balls
• Monogrammed duffel bag
• Grill utensil set
• Cigar sampler
• Silver cufflinks
• Monogrammed beer mugs/steins
• Portable hammock
• Leather cd case
• Beer of the month club membership
• Pocket watch
• Engraved pen set
• Game set (chess , backgammon, etc.)

Bridesmaids

• Monogrammed jewelry box
• Spa set
• Monogrammed bath robe
• Leather photo album
• Makeup brush set
• Framed picture/pictures of you and her
• Travel jewelry case
• Box set of “Friends” or “Sex and the City”
• Set of wine glasses
• Personalized stationary
• Wine of the month club membership
• Dress watch

Courtesy of www.weddingguidechicago.com

The wedding reception is the first time you formally receive your relatives and friends as a married couple. Properly planned, it becomes one of the most joyous parties you and your groom will ever host. It can be as simple and demure as cake and punch in the church parlor, or encompass a glorious five-course dinner and dance.

Selecting the location depends on how many people you are inviting. Your reception can be staged nearly anywhere. The church may have a suitable room, or you can rent a meeting hall or room at a nearby hotel, restaurant or club. more...